The thing is I meet this girls once and to me it was love at first sight, Although I never got around to build a raptor with this girl. I just went Ahead and spoke my heart . I told her my feeling and she was like "are you crazy" (to be fair I was, stupid) and stopped talking.
Its been a while now (almost 2 years) Do you think I can contact her or it would be to Pathetic?
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So you met her, and within the first few minutes said you loved her? I can see that would freak her out a bit.
It is possible that you could get in contact with her. But remember, she is not the same person as from two years ago. You never did get to know her, and she will have changed since then. You just saw her beauty and a side of her personality you liked, but everyone has many different sides to their person. If you do get in contact with her, do not expect her to be a perfect one sided ideal. If you can recognize that before contacting her, I think it will put you in a better place.
When it comes to contacting her, maybe over a Facebook message or email, be honest. Apologize for what happened before, and tell her that you still think she is beautiful and interesting, and you want a chance to get to know her. Don't say you still love her or allude to anything that can be taken as weird. Keep it short and sweet, maybe something like this:
I know I gave you the wrong impression a couple years ago, and I want to say I am sorry. I did not mean to upset you or freak you out. I still think you are a beautiful and interesting person, and I would like to take you to dinner and get to know you better."1
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