Its been a little over 2 since my Ex-gf of 3 years dumped me. She cheated the day before she dumped me saying she fell out of love and became infatuated with this other guy (not sure if this is a rebound or not). She begged me to continue being her "best friend". She also gave me this BS of a line " if you love something let it go, if it comes back its yours forever."
I was doing all the wrong things after the breakup - crying, pleading, calling, and all the usual pathetic stuff. I tried to do NC 2 weeks after the break up but cracked and sent her a joke via pretending like nothing has happened. She responded cheerfully and we continued this for a couple of days, until I decided I cannot do it anymore. She continued sending me several emails after that but I did not respond.
I went into strict NC and have not heard from her since. It has been over a month and I feel much better. At times I feel like I'm completely over her but then on rare occasions I feel this rush of emotions that just pretty much paralyzes my soul. I know she is not the one for me, but I just miss her sometimes.
Logically I know she betrayed, disrespected, and abandoned me; but I just want to know what's going on in her head or mine for that matter. Why is she still constantly on my thoughts? Do you think she is still thinking about me, or is her focus on that guy?
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If you meant a lot to her at one point, then I am sure every now and then she does think of you.
Right now, you are doing the right thing. Keeping her afar and focusing on yourself. Continue to do so, and you will be completely over her in no time.Stay strong!2