when I confronted her about it pretending to not know this information, I just said I heard you aren't done with your ex, she immediately assumed id seen the message. I played dumb. couple hours later she told the cousin they are finished and she would email her.
im a bit wary about her being afraid to tell people they are finished. but are exceptions OK for family? maybe she just didn't want to talk about it. or, rather, she's still in love with the ex. anyone have any ideas?