Yesterday at night I received a call from a girl to my house asking for my boyfriend. She didn't wanted to leave her name or anything but said that it was urgent. Anyways, today I told my boyfriend about it and gave him the number that appeared in my telephone. He was surprised and told me that he did not recognized the number. but after one hour he called me saying that the number was of his ex-girlfriend who sweared by God that she never called me and who was going to ask for a call record at her phone company so that he could see that she did not called me.
The thing is that even though I had no gain from telling him so, then why is it about a relationship if there can be no trust.
He says that I go by what other people say, but it is not true, I really I avoid all pointless drama.
He wanted to dump me at first, and I accepted without any doubt. But then he said that he does not know what to do because he loves me and wonders if we continue to be together if this problems will become bigger. He also said that he never did anything wrong to me to treat him like this (?)
He treats me as if this was my fault because he doesn't believe about the phone call and he wanted to know where I got the number from.
I never knew that the girl calling was his ex! I don't understand what is going on?
Did I took the wrong decision in telling him about it?
I don't know what is this all about? Please let me know what you think
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well.. he sound like a manipulator- threatening to dump you, blaming it on you, etc ..you don't want one of those..i had one for 8 years... she prob did call because she is prob still in love with him and she's prob psycho.. ill tell you right now my ex has a girlfriend and still tries to hook up with me behind her back..not saying that's what your boyfriend is doing..just something to think about.. you def deserve better if that's what's going on..maybe he's not talking to her..n she's just a crazy ex that won't let go...who knows..if it continues then you need to do what's best for you.1