My boyfriend dated his ex for 4 months but the relationship ended because she had to move away and he stayed here to finish school at our university.
Its been 7 months since their breakup but he still misses her. He had intentionally not contact her back because he wants to get over her.
My thing is, I don't think I can compete with his fantasy of her. They dated or only 4 months so he didn't have time to see her flaws yet and she was exactly his "type" (smart, science girl, pretty, cute, etc)
Do I stay or leave?
- Stay. He will get over her. He's already ignoring her contact attempts.Vote A
- Leave, don't compete with a fantasy or his unresolved experienceVote B
- See answerVote C
About his ex though, he also took her virginity. She was still a virgin at 24 last year. So you guys see, to him, she's practically "perfect"
Will he get over her though? I totally think she's largely just a fantasy.
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Your can love more then one person in the same span. It's unlikely for your situation. Sounds like he needs to be left on his own to explore his emotional potential. You're doomed if he has only the good times to remember, not just you, but every woman to follow.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE