My boyfriend dated his ex for 4 months but the relationship ended because she had to move away and he stayed here to finish school at our university.
Its been 7 months since their breakup but he still misses her. He had intentionally not contact her back because he wants to get over her.
My thing is, I don't think I can compete with his fantasy of her. They dated or only 4 months so he didn't have time to see her flaws yet and she was exactly his "type" (smart, science girl, pretty, cute, etc)
Do I stay or leave?
- Stay. He will get over her. He's already ignoring her contact attempts.Vote A
- Leave, don't compete with a fantasy or his unresolved experienceVote B
- See answerVote C
About his ex though, he also took her virginity. She was still a virgin at 24 last year. So you guys see, to him, she's practically "perfect"
Will he get over her though? I totally think she's largely just a fantasy.