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I wish I was. Can't seem to go more than 2 weeks of NC with my ex, one of us always seems to crack. Its obvious we both still care for each other, I want her back in fact, but I don't know where her heads at these days. We talked a lot just before she broke up with her new boyfriend, but since the breakup it seems like she's been avoiding me. Wish I could do the NC thing, but it's difficult when you live in the same dorm building and share the same friend group. But NC really is the best thing, for a while at least. Gives both of you some time to heal, to work through your emotions, to figure sh*t out. If your end goal is to make him realize what he's missing, best thing I can think of is to just cut contact for a while, work on yourself, get some new clothes, maybe workout, and find someone else. I've been on the receiving end of this and let me tell you it hurts like hell and it does make one realize what they're missing.
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