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worry about your own life, she is going to school so that is good, as long as she graduates that is good, now how is she planning to be a vet? Is she planning to go to college?... Is she doing the proper work to get there? Maybe she is an animal person not a mani pedi person, does she even like you/or the family maybe she doesn't like hanging out with you guys, if so you need to regain her trust and be less judgmental more loving, then you can try inviting her out to do things start out slow, maybe go to the pet store, at a non busy time of the day.. if she really doesn't like seeing people then go for a nature walk. I can sympathize because I am the same way... whenever we have family or my brother's friends over I go for really long bike rides even if it's in the middle of the night... I am a pro at avoiding people... when I go on walks I will put my ipod in and start running when people come by or I'll even turn around and go the other direction! I work from home and I don't go to school, I do all my shopping online. I love my chihuahua she is my best friend... some people are just like this, you can't change them, as long as they have their sh*t together and hopefully paying their own bills there's nothing you can do. Your sister's only problem is that she need to become independent from her dad some day, so that should be the only thing you worry about, but if she doesn't want to hang out with people you can't change that.