My ex from a short term relationship and I (2+ weeks split) are still chatting a little. Via FB.. We went through ugly emotional texts for a week, and a week of limited contact-no contact. She lurked my FB and sent a message, which turned into friendly messages, playful with a couple inuendos and then the "see you around" "ttyl" "I'm always here" ... confused if she still has feelings .. she went back to her ex and I can't be sure but it seems she may be regretting it. Can't tell but if the signal is I should fight I don't want to play games and ignore her but don't want to push either. Any advice (especially female viewpoints) would be helpful..
Lingering feelings, friendly gesture, or guilt?
What Girls Said 2
I never trust people who always keep flirting or in contact with someone when they're actually in a relationship.
This is the kind of people who will never be alone, because they can't or don't want to. Even if she's not happy, she'll hold on until the new guy comes along...
Still, if you're interested in a relationship with her, the easiest approach is to just ask. Unless you're interested in becoming the lover...0
I think, for now, she just wants some attention. If it doesn't hurt you too much, be friendly with her but don't go overboard and plan your schedule around her.
If she really wants you, we will break from the guy she's with and reconnect with you or hint that she's available.0
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