I had been dating this guy for a while and I fell in love with him. He broke up with me without even telling me! I found out by myself. You don't want to even know how I found out. So my question is why can't guys have the guts to tell her why?
Most Helpful Guy
why do "guys" not have the guts. You are generalizing when in reality you are talking about your specific ex and possibly a bunch of others.
But to your point more specifically when people don't want to give you a specific reason it is because they are too afraid to be honest and deal with the reaction. It is a bit of a cowards way out (particularly if the dumpee asks for specific reasons), a way to avoid confrontation or perhpaps a way to not hurt a person's feelings, but regardless it is a ploy to avoid being completely honest.
To not even address the person directly, like your guy did shows that he is immature and probably a bit of a coward1