Cheating on your Girlfriend

Have you done it before?

Certainly most would agree that cheating is wrong. But what about the cheaters? Tons of people cheat! What do they think? What is their excuse?

I have found myself in a situation that doesn't seem like it can go anywhere good. I have a girlfriend that I still have feelings for (although diminished) and this new girl has entered the scene. I feel terrible because things with the new girl keep progressing but I can't let go of the girlfriend. Neither knows about the other. Something terrible is going to happen, I just know it, and I am stressed all the time. Everything seems just so damn... inevitable.


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  • cheating affected tiger's golf game . it would probably hurt you too somehow.

    learn from tiger

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What Girls Said 15

  • You know... I started to give some realistic advice that could help you decide what to do to help decide... But I deleted it. Sorry. Anyone who knowingly and intentionally allows feelings to build with someone else while deceiving both that person and his girlfriend is undeserving of my assistance.

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  • I like Johnny Depp's saying:

    “if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.”

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  • Okay, the first thing you need to do is to stop acting like there's nothing you can do to stop yourself from cheating. It doesn't work that way. Cheating is always a conscious choice. If you want to be with the new girl you have to break it off with your girlfriend first. Don't wait until you cheat. Don't even wait until the new girl is a sure thing. Just break it off and take the risk. But don't cheat. And don't plan an excuse. It's spineless and disgusting.

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  • Let her go so she can get another guy. You want to be with this new girl yet keep your girlfriend and that's not fair to her. How would you feel if she had another guy who she has feelings for knowing she wanted more but couldn't let you go. You would feel like complete sh*t. Just dump the girl and save her some heartache

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  • I am in the similar situation except the guy is in a relationship but I know, it sounds like you and this new girl have a connection - although you need to work out whether its just lust and will go away or that you may have feelings for her and with your girlfriend - you may not feel so strong about her ( people will not even think of cheating if they are completly happy or in love with their current partner) so I suggest think about this sooner then later before you loose both ! :)

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What Guys Said 8

  • Don't EVER cheat. EVER. No excuse.

    You want to go pursuit things with this other girl, fine. But a real man will break it off with a girl before going to the next. She has put a emotional investment in you, the least you can do is give her the respect and break it off before anything happens.

    You can't be so selfish. Only cowards cheat, and that goes for women as well. Cheaters are in the same category to me as child molesters. Just disgusting human filth. You're better than that.

    Good luck.

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  • If I'm in a relationship then I'm with her. That's what's dating is for. When you find a girl that you want to have a relationship with you shouldn't want to cheat, otherwise just break up with her. Don't be a douche.

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  • You should not have seen the new girl. If both find out about each other, then both will dump you. You have to make a choice. Do you want them to both find out and lose both of them, or do you want to stay with one and keep one? It is better to break up than cheat. If you don't love your girlfriend anymore, then you should have told her instead of leading her on. Otherwise she will feel like you never cared about her at all, and/or will feel resentful and used.

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  • You should never cheat on your girlfriend. It will just ruin your relationship.

    Start distancing yourself from the new girl.

    For me, I haven't done it before. It's so disrespectful to my current partner.

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  • I have been cheated on in every relationship. So now I think I will start getting them before they get me. Do it instead of having it done to me for a change.

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