My ex and I broke up two months ago. I regreted breaking up with him and apologized afew days after the breakup but he wouldn't take me back. One month later,i got into a relationship with another guy(who was a friend of mine)and changed my status on fb. He then blocked me. I broke up with that other guy almost one week after Because I felt like I had feelings to my ex still and I messaged him saying I broke up with my new boyfriend because I still had feelings for him,but he did not reply and I stopped contacting him ever since. Just two days ago,he unblocked me(he had me blocked for nearly 20 days)and I messaged him on fb asking how he is doing and all. He was talking to me in short sentences and in a very formal way. The last thing we messaged was me asking how his work was and he hasn't replied after. Eventhough we messaged on fb,he did not add me as friend there.
I really miss him and want him back. But at the same time, I do not want to screw things up and push him away.
I was thinking about asking him to the movies over tge weekend. I am scared he will turn me down and then I will be seriously hurt.
Please tell me what I should do to have him back.
Thank you for reading this and for your time btw.
I am so hurt right now. Please help.
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It depends on how long your relationship with him lasted, depending on how long you guys were together I think he has the right to act that way and you should leave him alone. So if you guys were dating for say 6 months or more I would say that he was very attached to you and getting with another guy after only a month is insulting and disrespectful to the relationship you guys had. This would also apply if either one of you had said "i love you" to the other. However if you guys dated less than that then I would say he might be overreacting a little but it appears he did have strong feelings for you and seeing that you got with another guy after a month must of been a shock to him.
But if you really want him back (and you make dam sure you do) then you will do what it takes to get him back and you don't mess things up. Despite him not wanting to talk to you or see you you hang in there and wait for him. And you make the effort to show him how much he means to you and how much of a regret it was to break-up with him.