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she's just a hater. she says things to try and get at you. try not to let it get to you. Understand that what she says comes from a place of insecurity and intolerance. Unfortunately for her you are a constant reminder that her son isn't with whomever she thinks he should be with. Oh well f*ck her, right?
I would be angry and probably tell the boyfriend that, that kind stuff is not cool. He should probably standup for you although I do know a lot of guys have a stuff time standing up to their mothers.