The worst thing about a breakup is when someone gets in a relationship so quickly after you have broken up. My ex rebounded for a 2 year relationship just one week after we broke up. After we broke up we met up to talk and when I asked whether it was because she wants to date new guys she lied to my face. I said it would be the best thing for me to move on if you tell me the truth. We broke up 7 months ago and she is still with this guy she met teaching at her school. I believe they live together and going on holiday together in August.
That aside she's free to do whatever she wants. We have had no contact for 6 months and its sad that she moved on so quick like I never existed. At 23 she's had 4 long term relationship which is a and awful lot... My problem is I keep visualizing the holidays we had and the places we used to go. I am still delusional how someone can actually do this to someone.
People saying move on, plenty more fish in the sea doesn't help, I know what I got to do why can't I do it?
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That's the thing, see. We're all different. Some people just can't be alone. Like your ex for example. She's so f***ing insecure that she needs someone else's validation to feel beautiful and wanted. My ex was the same way. After me, she rebounded on someone else. And after that person, rebounded on someone else. People like that carry on this way throughout their entire lives. Probably will do the same after their 10th marriage and divorce. You're better off without her man. Just remember that there will be a wonderful girl out there for you and you will find her.0