So I met this guy about 4 months ago at a bar, we hit it of very well, by the end of the night we exchanged numbers and set a day when we were going to meet again. We meet up went to eat, movies and the mall and then went back to his house to watch another movie, all we d did was talk and get to know each other, he was very respectful the entire day. He told me he was just getting out of a divorce so he wants to take hings slow with me, he doesn't wanna ruin another relationship by rushing. Him and his ex wife hated each other by what he would tell me, but recently I found out he's still been texting her, he told me, that she's leaving to Texas and he wants to be civil about things and be friends with her. I don't wanna be one to tell him who to or not to talk to but I find it very disrespectful of him. Another thing that I found out was that he went to a bar with her recently, he had lied and told me he was with his buddies, now I don't know if he's really being the bigger person here or if he's just trying to have his fun. Mind you I'm 23 and he's 21 I've meet his family they all adore and think I could be the one for him, he's also told me that he wants to move out and have a baby with me. I just find it difficult to believe him when he's still has contact with his ex wife, my question is, should I continue with him or save myself from heartache?
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In order for a relationship to be healthy, there needs to be TRUST. He just got out of a relationship, so it could be possible that he didn't do anything. It is possible that he lied because he knew you wouldn't understand. It is also possible that he accidentally did something with her. But I doubt it is that in this case.
It does not matter that he is 21 years old and already out of marriage. For all you know, he could have learned from his mistakes. But it is hard for us answerers to know more details without actually being observers.0