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Doesn't really sound to me like you did anything to hurt is ego. If he is in the process of losing his house and is without a job is ego is probably deflated enough. What does he expect from you? If he is still involved with his exwife whom he has a child with (not having ever been married or having any kids) that seems like 1)something I'm not sure I would want to get mixed up with 2) extremely hard to give up on if it were me.
I say just give him some space, be there if you want to be there for him, but don't put your life on hold.