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You see, your spouse has something we call "The Entitlement Mentality". People with this mentality believe that the whole world and the people they know owe them something in one way or another, and one of the symptoms of this mentality is selfishness.
You should tell that guy he needs to grow a pair and take his stupid, lazy ass to court. Nobody is entitled to ANYTHING! Your spouse sounds like a lazy pile of trash, I think. Make sure he can't go back for more and punish him! A selfish person like him needs a goo swat once in a while, even if it's from a judge!