How can I save my relationship after I cheated on my fiancee, and what are the right words to say to her?

I cheated on my fiancée , and now she is leaving the house we live in together. How can I save this


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  • It is hard to say what can be done. She needs time to heal from this kind of betrayal. Only time can heal. I think you will need to fight for her by proving yourself and that this will never happen again. It will be difficult and not easy as the trust has been broken. But you may get a second chance if you can show your genuine and your feeling are true and real. Don't expect things to happen over night. It will take months and even some good counseling from couples therapy. You tube fire proof. If you can see if she will watch it with you if not you should. It might help.

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What Girls Said 19

  • Honestly, the only thing you can do is promise it won't happen again and see if it's possible to go into counseling together to fix what's left of your relationship. If she still refuses then just hope time will make it okay and learn from mistakes for the next woman. I don't need to go into the part on your end, I think you probably understand what you did wrong already.

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  • I don't know if you CAN save it.You broke the trust aspect of your relationship.Ask yourself how you would feel if she did that to you?...Exactly.I hope that she stays gone.I could never trust a person who would hurt me in such a way.Things don't "just happen".Your penis didn't just magically slip into a vagina.You wanted to do it,and at the time you didn't think of the consequences.Or better yet,you didn't CARE.So in reality,you don't deserve her.Period.

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  • Let her go. Don't beg, plead or anything.

    You f***ed up pretty badly. I wouldn't take you back. If she has any self respect she probably won't either.

    Would you forgive her if the situation was reversed? ...probably not.

    If she comes back, great. If not, don't do it again!

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  • You can't. Sucks to be you. Frankly, you deserve it. You can't save it. If she's anywhere near decent she'll leave you in the dust and move on with her life. You did an awful thing and deserve to lose her over it.

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  • Why bother? If you were really committed to her, you wouldn't have cheated. Let the relationship end.

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  • Sorry for your loss. But would take an exceptional woman and tens of thousands of dollars in counseling to expect that there might be even a miniscule chance of her believing you again. You are guilty of the rape of her trust. Be glad that she left you rather than forcing you out at gunpoint.

    There is a saying: "Behind every successful man is his woman. Behind the fall of a successful man is usually another woman."

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  • You cheated on her. That is the ultimate betrayal in a relationship. Your relationship might be unsalvageable at this point.

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  • We all make mistakes.We need to learn from them and try very hard to show how sorry and hurt you are and that you will do anything to make it up.Give her time but try hard.good luck.

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  • You don't. Some things are unforgivable

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  • and what are the right words to say to her?:

    I'm a douche bag and you deserve someone better than me. Take care.

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