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Hit the pause button...
Since there's kids involved that makes this more important than the average situation.
We read our mothers better than they think we do. Remember being little and watching the daily panorama of emotions that crossed your mother's face?
If you think there's going to be a tense situation, and your ex is really into this new girl, then just bow out. Tell him you're not ready to have his new girlfriend in the house with your children, and while you're at it, I'd suggest thinking twice about having him there at all.
Keep your family's boundaries intact. If something uncomfortable crosses those barriers it affects all of you.
Stop him at the point before it gets really weird for you all, and tell him what is going on in your heart and mind. Once you deal with the issue and have some closure on the subject, reconsider having him and her over to watch the kids.1
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