Now, my question is...since he has so many good characteristics , are these little red flags worth concerning myself over?
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he likes to spend a lot of time alone or alone with you? big difference. if he likes to spend time alone just with you, its because he likes you. that's not a red flag. if you both work all day and he comes over. he just wants to be with you because he likes spending time with you. maybe he sleeps a lot because he has a demanding job and gets up at 5am everyday like I do. maybe he doesn't like drinking because there is alcoholism in his family, maybe he doesn't like who you are when you drink. I think you should give it another shot. just compromise a little. like don't go out every weekend maybe every other weekend. I think that it may work out in the end. these don't seem like big "red flags"0