the reason why I'm asking this question is because my ex text after a year and I feel like a booty call I think he's texting because some other girl dump him and he wants to get over it with me ... I can help but to think all this and I still love him I haven't dated anyone.
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If something big or something what I feel is an actual concern is in my head, I WILL speak to my boyfriend about it, but other than that I am like you I think- I stay happy, try to please him, and if he's upset or angry I act calm and ensure not to cause a argument or something. But you've gotta make sure you aren't just pleasing him and making him think you're his servant...My mum often reminds me that if you're too overly kind to a guy and don't show you have a will of your own, then soon you'll be the kind of wife who does everything for him whilst he just lazes around on videogames or something all day :L He won't even mean to do it or realize it, he'll just be so used to you adapting for him that he'll take it for granted and think you won't mind :o
I think its healthy just to express perhaps a little bit of sadness or in-content, even just subtly, every now and then just to show you have your own individual expressions :)