So one night I decided to go talk to him. He was pretty tired and since he's that type of a guy who doesn't reveal what he thinks or speak much, I think it'd be better to talk to him when he's sleepy so I could get his 'real' truth out.
I got on his bed and lay down beside him to talk (we never have sex and we always cuddle in bed). And so he pulled me closer and started to hug me, touches/caressed my head and hair. We didn't made out but he rubbed my lower back, my thighs and put his legs over mine and tried not to let me go back to my own bed. When I insisted I have to back to bed for the 5th times he was like OK goodnight and let me go. the next day it was like nth happened and he became this cold/indifferent guy again.
For some reason this make me feels like he only attracted to my body or what?
FYI no one really knows we are attracted to each other, we never make it official ourselves and some of our friends/family might not approve our relationship.
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I react the same. (Most things what you've mentioned)
I do it, because I feel comfortable to express myself in private, and not publicly. He likes you, he is definitely interested in you, just don't wanna show it. It's obvious you like it too. He doesn't want anybody to talk about "you and him" that is why he is being so conscious. And being cold in public is mostly the "shy guys" nature. Don't worry, he likes you and not your body!
Btw, does he flirt in private? Or is he the normal guy in public and private?
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