-Why did you break up with your significant other?
-Why do you want them back?
-Did you break up with them hoping this 'end' would improve your relationship?
-How long did it take for you to realize you wanted them back?
-How will you approach the situation to initiate reconciliation?
-If your ex approached you first, would it change your mind?
-What would change your mind?
Answer any, all or provide advice for someone who eventually wants their ex back. I want to focus on myself right now, give it a few months, then see how I feel about us then.