I find myself getting angry about this and I feel like a shallow b**** for wanting to break up with him over this. I just don't know if I can live with somebody who's not financially independent ( he's living off his mom mostly) nor responsable ( bills go unpaid, I have to remind him to pay me back and how much).
I broke down the other night and said I didn't think we should still live together, not break up just live separately. He said it was all or nothing, we're living together or I never see him again. He won't even try to be friends. After a night of the silent treatment and then much talking the next day we decided to let the issue rest for a few days and re-visit later. We both still love and care about each other; but this not working thing is making me lose respect for him.
Should I cut my losses and break up with a great guy just because he's not working? Even if he gets a job I'm not sure it'll really change much. I also wasn't really ready to move in together in the first place and have also been struggling with giving up my space.
Can anybody offer some perspective on this?