My ex boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He recently broke up with me again, and is now seeing someone new only one month after we broke up. We have been broken up since February. I met him 3 months out of his separation from his second wife. He has 4 kids with whom I love and they love me. I was going to be their stepmother, and they were happy about it. He has been plastering on his Facebook page that he is in a relationship. He even took her to eat at the place of our first date, and what would have been our 2 year anniversary. I tried to give him his t-shirt and glass back before, no response. Now all of a sudden, he wants them back. He is also answering my texts within a minute of me sending them. He asked me how I was doing right away, and I just ignored the question and changed the subject. He says his relationship is going real good, however, he will keep responding to my texts right away. I called him yesterday while he was at work to see if he wanted me to bring his stuff by, and he answered right away. He only did that when we were together. Could he be missing me? Could he be lying about the new relationship being really good?
Could my ex boyfriend think he made a mistake?
What Guys Said 1
It seems that he really wants to be back with you.0
What Girls Said 3
No,he is not missing you or realizing he made a mistake.When someone breaks up with you the FIRST time,they CAN or WILL do it again.If he wanted to be with you,he WOULD BE WITH YOU.Just because he answers your messages quickly,it doesn't mean anything...he is still with another woman.And he is not answering your messages JUST to talk to you,but he is trying to get his possessions back from you.So I can't imagine how he is magically feeling something more for you.I know you would maybe like to think that,but I don't think so.I can't imagine why he would go so far out of his way to lie about something like this...doesn't make any sense. But I will tell you this...I think you should move on girly.I wouldn't imagine getting back with a jackel who dumped me the first time.When someone ends a relationship with you,its because they think they can do BETTER.And they would rather lose you,so they can find someone else.If I were you,I would cut my losses,and move on to someone with LESS baggage.Don't subject yourself to this.Give him back his things,and find someone else.Good luck to you.1
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He has moved on already hence him getting into the new relationship. You yourself admit you are not ready.
Let him go, you are holding onto something that no longer exists between the two of you. You may want him back and to be honest the best way to know if he really wants you back is to leave him alone and get on with your life, he has to miss you to want you back. He clearly is not missing you if he is dating someone else.
Let him go and go into no contact with him. Remember this everyday he is choosing not to be with you if a guy wants to be with you he will make sure that happens.
Dont hang on to a dead relationship, go out and meet someone else when you are ready maybe what you need is a fresh start with someone new.
Your comment about him wanting his stuff back maybe just that, he is trying to give you a clean break, it does not necessarily mean he wants you back just his things.
Yes, he does miss you. He wants to make you feel jealous about his new relationship and it seems like you don't have a care in the world about his new relationship and that's killing him inside because, you're not bothered by his new girl and he finds that interesting that you're not all over him and trying to get his attention in any way. The relationship with the other girl could be good but, that doesn't mean he still doesn't have feelings for you because, he moved on very fast to make his feelings for you go away but obviously it didn't that much.1
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