Ex boyfriend coming to collect his stuff. have I ruined chances by reaching out

We broke up two months ago after 2&half years.

Bar one occasion we haven't spoken.

I decided to text to see if he wanted his belongings back. He replied swiftly and was happy to come get things.

Did I ruin my chances by reaching out before he did (I was dumpee) or will it do me good to get rid of his stuff?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I would have dumped it. He obviously didn't want it anyway. He probably dumped it because it reminded him of you.


What Girls Said 1

  • When I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, I gave him his stuff back. I don't know what he did with it exactly but I gave him everything back. He said he wanted it.