I'm not sure what to do...
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Do you mind raising two children that aren't yours? I know after about 9months you can do dna tests so you could at least find out if the child is yours.
I think there are two things at play but the primary one is that she is actually conflicted about who she wants to be with and for all intents and purposes that is not something you want to get mixed up in. You want her to make a decision based on how you feel not on how you can convince/influence her to feel. She's pushing you away or at least keeping you at a distance because she is not set on how she feels and that's a dangerous thing to get involved in because it can leave you emotionally (sort of like you are now) unsatisfied and potentially hurt.
I'd say if you can get a job near your son move to that area but not with the expectations that you and your son's mother will be together... If you can't get a job near your son I would just suggest staying where you are and doing everything you can to be involved in your son's life... I really would really try to not expect anything of the mother though. She's got a lot going on that she needs to sort out internally. Maybe try to be there for her if she needs advice or whatever but try to keep your emotions on the side as it could leave you in a position to get hurt
But that is just my opinion... Good luck!
She's pushing herself to her limits. You should be there for her though if you think the other guy can do it, then so be it.
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