Confused with exgirlfriend
What Girls Said 1
So the best advice I can give you is to stop trying to see her. She is not interested in you. To explain this better I might have to get a bit complicated.
All humans want to feel good about themselves. Girls especially want to be loved and cared for so when we are with the guy we like/love and he cares for us and shows us he is interested those feelings of being cared for, good looking, wanted flare up and we feel really really good about ourselves. Then when the inevitable break up happens we "crash" in a way and those feeling as not just gone, but replaced by feelings of inadequacy, which as you can see, is the exact opposite of what we want.
There is a way to save ourselves though, to make us feel pretty and sexy and wanted. Rebound guy, this is unfortunately what you became. The fact that you are an ex means that you know her ins and outs and you are still interested! This makes her feel amazing! So she can text, feel flirty and loose herself in this relationship instead of facing the heartbreak of the ex. Thats where the random "I love you" comes from, this is when she has lost herself in this relationship effectively enough that she forgets about her ex for a bit.
Its really terrible and after awhile she will realize what she is doing and want to stop-so she did. Only thing is, you are not letting her. When you ask to meet up or go see a movie or anything she isn't hearing it from the guy she used to love ect... she is hearing it from her rebound who she feels guilty about, because she thinks you are interested in her romantically and she's just not.
I know this sounds convoluted and rather messy, but I speak from personal experience and this is what happens. She just isn't over this other guy and you were a pretty good relief from that relationship, but now you need to back off. She might come back when she's totally over him.0
What Guys Said 1
You should just leave her alone. You're not the guy for her.0
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