Every summer when the weather gets nice. I become insignificant to my boyfriend. He is too busy for me for up to two weeks at a time. I don't even hear from him, not even a quick phone call to say he has been busy. He does not even return my phone calls. I broke up with him last summer over this after telling him how I feel and nothing changed. He was devastated. Who would have known considering the way he was towards me. I just thought he wanted to break up with me. So I broke up with him so he was not wasting my time and I could sleep with my ex without cheating.
By the way he is so excited about me moving in with him in couple months.
I have resigned myself to treat him the way he treats me so I am not annoyed by his disappearing anymore. Other than this he is a great boyfriend. I also highly doubt he is cheating as he is just not the type.
I get it, my boyfriend is an idiot. Just want to know how many people think this is normal to treat their boyfriend/girlfriend like this?
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it's not normal. but the questions is why do you subject yourself to it? also why are you with a guy when there are other people you want to sleep with?
I think there are several issues at play here. I can't say why he does what he does. Perhaps when the weather gets nice he just kind of gets an itch to be free but I also do not know thsi guy so that would only be a presumption.
I think you should just break up because a relationship where it's sort of "eye for an eye" treatment is really unhealthy and will get you nowhere0
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