He treated his ex- girlfriend more like a prize than me. Why did he treat is ex more like a prize than me? It making me feel insecure.
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Why did the previous relationship end? Maybe putting her up on a pedestal ended making her act like a self entitled brat. Maybe he doesn't want you to forget that YOU have something worth fighting for in HIM too. You aren't a prize, you're a young woman who deserves to be cherished. Show him you adore him and that he's your hero, treat him like one, you'll get yours too. Don't worry about how he treated the ex, unless you want your relationship to end the same way. I used to think a lot about how my guy treated his ex too, like a 'prize'. Chased her for a year after they split, even though she was going back and forth btwn him and another guy, she didn't even know who was the Dad of her baby btwn the two of them . . . He came to realize she was never worth chasing when he met me. He wouldn't chase me now, like he did her, but I wouldn't treat him like crap either, so it won't ever come to that. Honestly though, it's a good thing. Persay I did treat him like crap and he did chase me, I would see he lacked respect for himself, and that would make me lose respect for him too. He's grown up a lot, I'm sure he'd put me in my place if it came to that, but once again, love him proper, and it won't. :)1