He said he wants to take it slow but he isn't
What Guys Said 1
He's saying one thing and doing another.
He said he likes to go slow as a way of making you feel safer. Then he goes ahead and does what he wants anyways, with less resistance from you.0
What Girls Said 1
Something similar happened to me once. I told the guy to take things slower in terms of sexual things, and he agreed and promised to respect that. Next thing I know he's going at the speed of lightning. Honestly, I think it's because most guys are into the sexual stuff, but they need a girl for that. So yes, he'll tell you what you want to hear, but still try pretty hard to do what he wants anyway. If you seriously like him, I'd suggest sitting down and talking to him about what your definition of going slow is, and if he's not on the same page and it bothers you, then you should stop seeing him. After all, it is your body and you and only you get to make the decisions in terms of what you want to do with it. He either respects that, or he's basically a rapist. Good luck!0
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