This is for both sexes, but I guess I'm more interested in hearing a female perspective about why people get back together and how rare it is. I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to dating, only had one true girlfriend but it was a significant relationship that lasted almost 2 years. I was the one who ended things, for bullsh*t reasons in hindsight, but I don't know I was in a weird spot mentally at the time. Anyway, we're still friends, hangout and talk and such, but I still have very strong feelings for her and hope to get back together. I'm just wondering how realistic it is for two people who loved each other and had a great relationship to get back together? And what are some reasons for not getting back together, particularly if it was the best relationship you've ever had?
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I really hope it is realistic as I am in the same boat! I feel like it was true love... and I am pretty sure he felt the same... its just there are other factors like I am still trying to figure myself out and what career and life path I want... sometimes I just really like to be alone and to distance myself and this hurts relationships... I don't know if this side of me will ever change but anyways if were meant to be were meant to be, I figure I will meet him later in life and we will either get back together or realize we have grown apart... but I am not going to stress about it or try to start things up at this time... I guess I will know when the right time is... I still feel really young... I just turned 21... literally an hour ago ha ha May 5 is my birthday:)0
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