What key event or thought finally gave you closure after your break up?
How did using No Contact effect you as the Dumper or the Dumpee?
Is using No Contact just the cowards way out of a relationship?
I only learned that he was using No Contact on me when I found this site, I never heard of such a thing before that..he must have as he is still using it!
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ehhhh I had the same exact questions as you after a breakup, I feel like most people do.
the key event for closure? my ex said if you love someone...let them go if it was meant to be, it'll be. The closure came when I realized if it was meant to be, it would have never ended. it was pretty weird, one day you'll wake up and suddenly feel completely different.
effect of no contact? I was the dumpee. the longer the no contact, the more I examined all the faults and problems of the relationship. I realized I treated her a lot better than she treated me. all the positive things I thought right after the breakup were replaced with negative aspects of the relationship as time went on.
no contact as the cowards way out? yes and no. 1. if a dumper initiates no contact, yes I feel that it is because they wanted to end it. they should at least be able to talk things out if they genuinely cared about you sometime throughout the relationship.2. if a dumpee initiates no contact, no I feel that it isn't because they broke up with you. you are just trying to move on and cut them out of your life like they want.0