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damn. I mean the question in and of itself is not a bad one, I've actually asked my boyfriend that too but the consensus for both of us is we honestly don't know if that's a forgivable act and it would depend on what degree the person went to. Neither of us have ever cheated.
What would worry me about your situation is his reaction to the situation and so nonchalantly talking about cheating. It really sounds like to him it's normal and not a big deal. I would be highly offended by that comment of "all girls say that". You're obviously a classy girl that wouldn't stoop to that level and it's concerning that he could see you in that light with no good reason - it sounds like he doesn't think very highly of you.
It is NOT okay to cheat and "not giving up on you", if you mean not leaving them no matter what then that IS making it okay, I don't care how you want to spin it.
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