I need help I'm confused

Yesterday my boyfriend admitted that he wanted to experience being single and the single college life He wants sex with other girls and wants to pick up girls at parties and have one night stands.

He told me he wouldn't break up with me because he wants to marry me one day after college and he didn't want to lose me. I told him that if he didn't get these feelings out then he would always resent me for it. We've been together 3 1/2 years since we were 15 and 16. Now we're just 18 and 19 so I understand the feelings he's having. I don't have those feeing because I see sex as something that's between people who love each other. He sees it as just physical.

The break up was mutual and the plan is to get back together after "exploring" for a few months. We've been talking like normal and today his mom called and told me he was taking it pretty bad too.

Is it normal for guys to want sex with other girls? We haven't had any problems in our relationship for a long time until his dad was deployed to Afghanistan two months ago. That's when he beame really stressed and started flirting with other girls and sort of pushing me away. He called his behavior self destructing.

Can someone help me make sense of what is going on? He texts or calls every few hours even right after we broke up the other day.

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  • WANTING to have sex with other women never goes away. It's just how we're wired.

    However, once you're in a committed relationship, you sleep in the bed you've made, or leave said bed for good.

    I honestly don't think you should get back together with him.

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What Guys Said 2

  • I would dump him lol.

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  • It's normal to want to have sex with other girls, though what he's doing is really detrimental in the long term.

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  • Dont even waste your time with him. He might say he's emotionally damages. But honestly who the hell says to there girlfriend that they want to experience other girls, have sex with random people and whatever else you said he said. Adn then to say oh but I want to h=marry you and sh*t one day. Now that's just mighty f*cked up if you tell me. I would dump his ass for even saying that. Like honestly I'm sure you love him and all. But you have been together for that long and he says that to you, that's pathetic. I don't know you, but I can clearly tell you deserve better than that prick!

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  • This is the stupidest plan I have ever heard in my entire life. A real man only needs one woman in his life. This guy's a loser, let him go live the bachelor life on his own, you need to cut off contact.

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