When my husband calls me every night at 1am to 3am is he cheating?

he is in bahrain and he calls me 6pm his time and 1am to 3am his time. its just weid and he tells me that he goes to his homeboys villa evrynight until that time. I have not had problems with him cheating in the past but he has never just called me in between those time and and it has been twice that he has not called at all and he told me that he fell asleep at his homeboy house. he is military and I just don't know what to think. I just need some answers because if this was the other way around he would have cussed me out and everything else. please tell me what my husband is doing and what I should do.

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okay he is in the military that's why he is out there and he is going to be out there for two years and my husband said I'm the first person that he has never cheated on but when he said that that was when we first got together. this is his second marriage and he drinks a lot and his friend are not the best influence on him. it just not making since that the only time he call me is 2am and 3am his time why can't it be at a deasent time? I ask hime why are you coming in the house so late
IN THE BEGINING I MEANT 6PM MY TIME SO IT MAKE IT one AM HIS TIME .

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  • I'm sorry but how is 6pm his time late? Can you maybe suggest he call you @10pm so it's at least7am your time? I think you might be frustrated that you don't get to talk to him when your ready to talk to him and that might cause you to stress. Coordinate a better call in schedule, trust him, and then see what happens. He might drink but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you and isn't thinking of you. Have faith. The best you can do is continue to remind him how much you miss him and how you love him. By reminding him of all the good he's go at home, will help him fight those urges.

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    • i said 6 pm my time so he's 7 hours ahaed and I just spoke with hime today and asked him why he can't call me inbetween the afternoon time his time and 3am his time everynight and he said its because he's bussy with other people at that time so he can't he has never acted like this before when he first got there we talked at decent times now he gets drunk everynight and last night he got in at 6am his time and told me he can do whatever he wants. so what do I do? I no something is not right?

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  • What is he in Bahrain for?

    You know Bahrain is a major sex tourism is Europe: link

    We really can't answer if he's cheating on you or not. We need more information.

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    • he military

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    • Deployed for 2 years? wtf that's too long to be deployed away from your wife. Don't you think he will miss sex? what happens if you are not there to give it?

      Theres a difference between doubting your husband and having a gut feeling that he is cheating. Gut feelings?...are almost always likely to be true.

    • Bahrain is less oppressive and more civilized than other Muslim nations, but it's still a Muslim nation. I doubt he's cheating on you. He probably just misses you and wants to go home.

  • It seems mighty considerate of him, actually, to call your dinner time. After all, if he was cheating on you with some woman, wouldn't he *not* be calling that time of night for him?

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  • Bahrain is less oppressive and more civilized than other Muslim nations, but it's still a Muslim nation. I doubt he's cheating on you. He probably just misses you and wants to come home.

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  • not really tho if you trust him. Is it possible to video chat him to see what's really going on

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  • No I don't think so.

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  • The time difference is the reason. He's not cheating at all.

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    • i think he is because he has became so rude and basically blowing me off and he told me he don't care what I do and I can stay out whenever and I don't got to call hime in the begining he didn't want me to be out partying and stuff know all of a sudden he don't care about nothing I do this isn't right.

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