Things to be said: I was physically sick, and I just discovered some hours prior to reading this that she cheated on me with her "ex" during a trip she did to her country. I wanted to think and rethink things concerning this but she helped me taking the right decision, so here it is:
Hi ****, hope your ears get way better by tomorrow. I would like to say thank you very much for being with me during the last time also would like to say that I am sorry for being with you. I do not like to have or to deal with uncomfortable situations. But I think this is the time for being honest with myself. And let me tell you that it is not easy as I can not help thinking of you. I want to end this relationship. I clearly understood your point that it would not be fair or a good finish. But *****, I like you but I do not love you (NOTE.- SHE DID SAID SHE LOVED NOT LONG AGO PRIOR TO THIS LETTER). I think this is the real reason within myself. I am not sure if you like to cut everything off after the end of our relationship.
But can't you please let me stay around you for a while? I haven't invited you to the dinner we talked some days ago (made by own hands)... I know I am the one initiating the break up but I feel so bad... I've learned many things from our relationship. Thank you ***** and I am sorry to make you to go through this. You are beloved by family and friends. Very precious person. So I feel more sorry as I have any right to hurt you or to upset you.
I even can not see your profile picture now. Okay, I will stop writing here and will call you few hours later. Please let me know your condition of ears. Bye Bye."
After re-reading this, an ironic smile appears in my face, as I could not believe how dork I was wasting my time with this nice lady. I just find it as an example of the kind of people that is not worth to fight for, I just want to kindly remind the readers that I discovered she cheated on me JUST some hours after I received this on my Facebook inbox (yes, not even a face-to-face break-up). Cheers!
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I think these messages were more for her than for you. She wrote them to help massage her own guilty conscience for treating you like sh*t, cheating on you, etc.
She's sorry for being with you? Wow, I hope that's a typo on her end, but g*ddamn. That's rude even by breakup standards.
Nobody likes uncomfortable situations, duh. She's playing the victim, too - see, it's not easy for her to be unfair to you. This is all very hard on her, you have to understand. Puh-lease.
Oh, and the beloved by family and friends nut shot, she's trying to friend zone you there, so she can have your sorry ass hanging around doing favors for her like helping her move and wiping her new boyfriend's @ss.
Dude, we all make mistakes. Don't be hard on yourself. And look on the bright side, she didn't string you along after cheating on you, she cut you loose. You have every right to let her keep feeling guilty. Go out and find someone who respects you and forget this dame.
Hope that breakdown helped.1