I work together with a guy ( we have a project together). Since the beginning we had interesting discussions and a laughed together. I noticed whenever I let the conversation die down he would look at me. He asks questions about my life and shares a lot of his interests and stories. We even went out once (initiated by me) and we laughed a lot. He also played for my drinks. Sometimes he would touch my arm or back. I started to do that,too. But whenever he proposes to meet its work related and he never asked me to go out together or drink a coffee together. So is he just trying to create a friendly atmosphere or is he trying to flirt? Or is he playing games?
Most Helpful Guy
Imo he's interested, and yes he was flirting, but he is getting "cold feet" when it comes to actually asking you out.
Just about every guy has gone through this,
Not much you can do besides ask him out yourself or flirt back and wait for him to get the nerves to ask you out for real.
P.S. I have learned from talking to girls how bothersome and even annoying this can be, so guys, take the plunge and go for it!0