I just recently discovered photos of a lot of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends on his phone.. nudes.. reg. pictures.. etc. (I didn't snoop.. I asked if I could check his phone out because it was cool & new & he automatically got weird & was like "Yea! Hold on.. I gotta do something first.." Which alarmed me..) I brought it to his attention once I got home that day & he blamed it on the SIM card, because this phone is brand new. He said he didn't know they were on there & that he'll delete them. Two days later I asked him if they were all gone & he said yes. I'm not the type to snoop & go through a phone or a Facebook.. but, 2 days ago he asked me if I could deal with something he ordered online. So, I went into his email to send off an email to the company he was dealing with. I saw something titled "Me" twice.. I clicked it & low & behold there were pictures of his ex-girlfriend.. I got upset & started thinking about whether he was saving them or not. I confronted him about it.. not telling him that I knew who it was & he told me he didn't even know who the girls were. I looked in the TRASH & there were two more of her. He acted like they were 4 diff. girls. They're all the same girl. He said he didn't know that he sent them to his email.. I didn't talk to him much that night or the morning after. Then he started asking me if I talk to anyone about our relationship.. I said no.. then he started talking about marriage & how he wanted to get married to me soon... that he would never cheat on me, swearing on his mother's life.. his life... my life.. etc. I just want to know if he started talking about marrying me to make me think he's not cheating on me, because he told me he just wanted me to forget about what happened so that we can move on with our relationship & take the next step. He said he thinks all that has happened will bring us closer. Am I dealing with a bullsh*tter?
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Bad excuse, SIM cards don't store pictures... only memory cards or internal memory does, at worst it'd be an iPhone and it could accidentally sync all your photos from iTunes onto it. Plus his reaction shows he knew there was stuff on it. He's trying too hard, swearing on peoples lives sounds like a big thing, but people can easily just say it for everything. If I was thinking of marrying someone, I'd probably not tell them... I'd prefer to make a proposal somewhat surprising, I might say she's marriage material or something but I'd not go into it much. Bring you closer together?! Yes I remember when pictures of naked girls brought me and someone close together...1