Idk I just seem to have a hard time opening up to someone , I've been hurt a lot and just don’t open up to every guy I date. But my girl friends on the other time seem to be with a guy for 3 or 4 months and then they move in together. I don't know I've been with the same guy for 3 months now and were no wear near that stage. I mean I haven’t even meet his kids yet. About how long do you parents wait to introduce your kids into your new partner? And how can a couple move so fast? I've only been in one fast relationship but we never actually got to move in together. I don't know my girls always get those guys to do sweet things without having to tell them , I never get that guy. I mean my man is a good guy , and an great father to his kids but he never dose romantic things for me. How can I get him to do that without sounding desperate or stupid? Maybe i’m just not the type of girl guys see as into romantic sh*t.
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I've dated a few single moms, and single parents like to wait a little longer before they get into things like introducing kids, or especially moving in.
Two college-age kids moving in together is whatever, but when you're dating a single parent moving in means you're becoming part of the family. Though in my opinion, 4 months is WAY too soon to be thinking about moving in. That's not something I'd think about until I was about a year into the relationship.
Just bear with him and realize that as a single dad, he's going to be protective of his kids. That means it'll take time and he'll have to decide he really likes and trusts you as a potential "future mom" for his kids before he has you meet them. And moving in? A single parent wanting to move in pretty much says they're either hard up financially, or think marrying you is a strong possibility. Most single parents don't f*** around when it comes to that stuff.1