I had no sexual experience before him and I saw how attached I was becoming so I had to end things because I felt in the end I was going to be hurt. He didn't want to end things he even tried contacting me a month later to get back with me saying he wasn't trying to hurt me . But two days after getting back together he was already planing to meet up to have sex. We haven't spoken in 4-5 months and I've missed him so much. In that time I've dated a few guys even had a relationship but the desire for him hasn't subsided. I wanted to reach out to him but my pride won't let me. Looking back I feel that maybe I jumped the gun that I wasn't patient enough he wasn't use to serious relationships but he was making an effort maybe not as fast as I hoped. On top of that I was shutting myself off trying not to get too attached too him.
Does it seem like a good idea to try and reach out to him again
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you need to separate the enjoyment of sex from your feelings here because you don't miss him you miss feeling wanted and needed. Remove the sex and the chemical reaction (there's a hormone released when you sleep with a man that makes you feel attached), and you probably wouldn't look at him twice.
Next time, don't sleep with a man so early on! Give yourself and him a chance to actually connect on more than lust! Then, the lust will be even MORE intense and maybe, even love! :)