So my boyfriend wanted to break up with me because he is not sure that he wants a relationship right now to figure out his life. He also says he is not good for me because he smokes and I hate it and he isn't sure of our future because of that.
However he says that he still loves me. I know this could be seen as a line, but I do not think so. Anyways, I convinced him that we should take a break, so he can figure out if he wants a relationship or not.
Since this was sprung on me (I had no idea this was coming) it was hard for me to argue his points, and I didn't get a chance to before he left. So I would like to send him a letter explaining my side. I figure this is a no pressure situation, since I do not expect him to reply, and he doesn't even have to open the letter. I would rather know that he makes his decision knowing my side.
What are your thoughts?