I like this girl a lot for a long time.the thing is I haven't told her I like her yet. I get this really powerful feeling she likes me back just as much.
The thing is I have lots of problems on my head right now and I feel I wouldn't be able to give her all my attention and if we do get together at this point, things will fall appart.
I thought I should tell her about my feelings for her and explain why we can't get together and that I'll get back to her as soon as everything is going to be OK if she'll be available... I also plan to tell her I'm not expecting her to wait for me forever, but I want her to know that I love her. I really love her and I want her to know it
Should I do that ?! would it be selfish from me ?! or just let her go without really knowing that I had something for her?! what would be the best thing for me to do from a girls point of view.
i found it fair-play to tell her that I like her so much but I can't be with her all in the same email, instead of waiting to see if she likes me back, then tell her I can't be with her. I thought that would have been deceiving.