Most Helpful Girl
That's good that you didn't tell him what to do in his relationship because the worst advice you can give a friend is tell them they should leave. No relationship always has rainbows and butterflies so there will be some bumps on the way. Just be supportive that's all you can do at this point. The problem I have with confiding with someone of the opposite sex is that you could be contributing to his confusion on how he feels. He is running to you for advice but realistically he should be just working it out with girlfriend and coming to some middle ground. I know you want the best for him but the relationship he has with you might be closer than you think. If he comes to you for advice over his girlfriend then how will she feel? He might have to give you up to make his girlfriend feel she has more secured of their relationship. Talking to a guy pretty much every day you might as well date him. You might like talking to him every day but the fact is he has a girlfriend and you need to limit your one-on-one conversations. It shows that you have no respect for her and their relationship. Before you get upset with me just put yourself in her shoes. Have you made an effort to get to know her as well as your guy friend? If not, why is that? Be honest with how you feel.