My friend came to me and ask me for advice confided in me about several things about his relationship. I basically told him he has to do what makes him happy. Meanwhile his girlfriend broke up with him. That crushed him! So I supported him on moving on. Well while at his place I sense his ex was back in the picture. And he is acting the way he was when he was with her. We would talk almost everyday know its once a week maybe. I'm not jealous, he is a good friend just concerned about him. Especially when her leaving him affected his health and caused him to be in a deep depression. I would be happy for him if he found another lady to be with that will treat him better than his ex but he actions not good. So I'm not made at him just decided to back off as a close friend and he knows that I am here for him if he needs me. I had a weird dream about him, the dream was sexual and he initiated when I woke up I felt so weird. Yes we are attracted to each other but that's all nothing going on. He even told me that when he was with his ex she thought he liked me or something.
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That's good that you didn't tell him what to do in his relationship because the worst advice you can give a friend is tell them they should leave. No relationship always has rainbows and butterflies so there will be some bumps on the way. Just be supportive that's all you can do at this point. The problem I have with confiding with someone of the opposite sex is that you could be contributing to his confusion on how he feels. He is running to you for advice but realistically he should be just working it out with girlfriend and coming to some middle ground. I know you want the best for him but the relationship he has with you might be closer than you think. If he comes to you for advice over his girlfriend then how will she feel? He might have to give you up to make his girlfriend feel she has more secured of their relationship. Talking to a guy pretty much every day you might as well date him. You might like talking to him every day but the fact is he has a girlfriend and you need to limit your one-on-one conversations. It shows that you have no respect for her and their relationship. Before you get upset with me just put yourself in her shoes. Have you made an effort to get to know her as well as your guy friend? If not, why is that? Be honest with how you feel.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE