Maybe I should tell him how I feel. But I don’t know how to go about doing that either. Being a strong confident woman I would feel bad letting him know that I am secretly insecure.
From what you can gather, what would you say about the situation? Should I discuss this with him or let it be? Would you grab on a girl’s body like that if you didn’t like it?
I mean, if he’s OK with my fat all hanging out then I guess I am too. Lol. It’ll just be something I’ll have to get used to ?
To all you fat haters out there, if you are going to say something rude or ignorant about my weight then don’t bother. I won’t waste my time on you.
It was him that got ahold of me first. We met months ago through a mutual friend and ran into each other a couple more times after that. He said he though I was pretty so he contacted me to hang out.
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If he is doing things like that he not only does not have a problem with it - but probablly loves it! I have this convo with my girl constantlly because she doesn't like her body - but I LOVE it! - I wish she could just let me look at what I want to see and feel what I want to feel - If I didn't love it I wouldn't like that at all.
You have to realize just because you are uncomfatable with your body - does not mean that's how he sees it.
I will say the same thing I said to her - not that it made much difference but it might to you...
"However much you don't like it - is how much he DOES like it!"1