A few weeks ago my sister-in-law and I were talking about relationships and she told me something that caught my attention. She told me that all girls who have boyfriends are clingy and overly jealous. Jealous to the point where they get mad if the boyfriend doesn't answer their text or call right away, talks to other girls or has friends that are girls, or how they can't have eyes for anyone other than them. I've seen it happen with some of my brothers girlfriends (well ex girlfriends now) but I don't think they're all like that. I've also seen it from time to time with people I don't know (how couples argue in public and just make a scene and the guy is just trying to calm the girl down). Oh, there was also this one time when (on a stop sign on a busy day) when a girl got out her boyfriends car, slammed the door and walked away. So I want to think that they're not all clingy because that's like saying all guys are jerks, right? And I personally don't think all guys are the same because I have brothers and guy friends whose personalities are nothing alike.
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I've been with well over 20 girls, and well over half of them were jealous as crazy. What's more, all of my girlfriends but my current one were also totally a bunch of cheating, fucking whores. Go figure, huh? But yes, they were insanely jealous. I didn't call back right away, I must be up to something. One was actually crazy enough that she had a dream about me cheating and assumed that I MUST have done something to cause that, and called me up, demanding to smell my cock. I wish I was making that crap up.
Needless to say I couldn't be allowed to talk or be anywhere near the opposite sex. Can't look at anyone else, and hooo boy did I try putting my foot down on that, how they needed to chill out because what they were doing was NOT ok.
No, not all girls are like this. Not all girlfriends are jealous. Not all of them are crazy. Not all of them are cheaters. I know there are plenty of great girls out there, I just seem to have unfortunately attracted all the crazy ones.
But I would like to tell you that "clingy" is not the word I would use for what you describe. I would use crazy, jealous, possessive, paranoid, insecure. Things like that. To me, clingy is when a girl just refuses to let a guy have some time alone. Like she needs for all time spent to be together, no time apart, no time wasted, and get hurt, or mad or otherwise down -- and yes, possibly even crazy -- just because he's away. It's also possessive, but it's different. Either way it's still bad.
I lucked out though. The girl I'm with is actually sane. She's stable as a rock, actually. She trusts me, she's not jealous in the slightest, she's independent, she's not clingy, and she doesn't have much of a temper at all. More than that, over the many years I've been with her, and the years I've known her before that, I know she's not a cheater, or a liar, and isn't dishonest either. She is pretty much the only person I've ever met without any enemies.
In conclusion, I think your sister in law is wrong. Not all girls are clingy. There might be a lot of them out there, but any girl with a decent head on her shoulders should know better.3
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