Should I take him back
What Guys Said 1
No, don't take him back. Out of pity actions will do you no good.
What Girls Said 1
I say run! First off, you just met this guy and he proposed? That's a big red flag. Why is he in a rush to get married? Shouldn't you two get to know each other first?
It sounds like there are a lot of things he is hiding from you. I can certainly understand if you met someone, and things were amazing and so you two decided to get married. But it sounds like there are a lot of things going on with this guy.
You've already found out about another woman, and a woman that he had impregnated. I think you need to take a step back and think about this rationally.
Would you marry a guy who was talking to other women, signing up for datings sites after he just asked you?
He says he was on POF because he was bored? Really, and how long were you dating when that happened? It just doesn't seem like you guys have been together long, so it's too early for him to get bored.
I can see if you two were together for 5+ years, but by the sounds of it, you two have only been dating a short time.
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