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Okay, the fact that he broke up with you because he met someone else means that it's pretty serious. Maybe he already met her during your relationship. If so, did you notice any slight/sudden change of contact? Like for a moment he seemed to be pulling away?
Dates don't have to be local so going on vacations together can be a date.
And guys in general don't have the urge to post everything on Facebook like girls do. He probably didn't want anyone to know...yet.
Looking back at the past (to learn from it):
You probably never set any boundaries with him, which made it okay for him to get away with anything, and you may have just left him alone that he feels “less appreciated” with you than with her.
When he did he say “he was serious about her” and that “he likes a lot of things about her”? Was it during the break-up or after?
Does he still talk to you outside the social media? or do you to him?
If he does contact you outside the social media, then he may still have feelings for you, especially if it’s as long as nine months.
Move on. If he broke up with you, no matter how much it hurts, refuse the urge to know more about him or talk to him. It won’t help you and it’ll only get you hurt more than you already feel now.
And if you’re SURE that he’s just physical with her, then she’s just a rebound. He was probably able to move on easily because he’s been with her half the times during being with you.
I hope I addressed every question you asked.
Please comment questions or concerns.
Hope this helps! :D
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