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She will always have a connection to that man because she has a child with him. Find another woman who likes only you and won't have to deal with her ex's child. Even without the kid in the picture, five years is a long time. I dated someone who had an ex of five years and he went right back to her but still wanted to keep me in his life (hell no). She's going to try to push your limits and see how much she can get away with seeing him if she still likes him. You do not want this mess. You will be thankful if you stop talking to her when you're starting to go out and meet new people.