Ok so myself and my ex broke up a few months back over and back arguing and making friends. He ended up with some1 shortly after we broke up which disgusted me. I was so mad. Anyway 3 months later ipull myself together and text him. Lifes too short I wish you happiness and hope all goes well in your life take care and leave the past where it is. Did I do the right thing? Of course I didn't get a reply because I only get a reply wen I'm angry with him or he's looking 4 attention. I felt to move on I have to let go and that means forgiving him in my heart but smart enough to remember in my head how he treated me. I wonder what he's thinking with that message?
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You did the right thing according to yourself.
Would I have done that? No.
Because it shows although three months have passed, a little part of me must still care for him. And even if that is true, do I want him to know that? No.
This is a man that had little respect for me and mistreated me.
Yes, he will read the message and see what you wrote. But
There is always the bigger picture (your actions), and that is what he will read too.
Continue to forgive, and continue to let go.
Do not write him any more after this, and continue to put the pieces of your life back together.
If he texts you , do not answer,
It's not about carrying resentment, it's about knowing your worth and valuing yourself.
You do not need to associate yourself with someone who doesn't value you at all.
Answering your question again,
Did you do the right thing?
Well, it's not necessarily wrong.
Take from this experience and gain knowledge out of it.
It would only be a wrong action if you continue to contact him (because then,
you are not respecting yourself and in future may continue down that cycle).
Flocking behind someone that doesn't respect you.0
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