what should I do? I haven't seen him for already about 3 weeks. And I really miss him.
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A sweet guy doesn't make accusations, and doesn't play mind games. Maybe when he truly gets over his issues he'll have the potential to be sweet. Your relationship doesn't stand a chance if he can't trust you and if he continues to punish you for someone else's behavior. He sounds a little controlling at the moment (manipulative at least) and that's not good. You could hang in there a little while longer, but you have to be very clear to him that he needs to work on his behavior, straight up tell him you are not his ex and don't appreciate being treated as such. Remind him of your past experience with the cheating you delt with and that you could never do that to someone just like you trust him not to do it to you. And you deserve trust to go both ways! Give it some time (set a time for yourself that you'll try to make it work) if things arnt improving leave. You'll have done everything you could by then and open his eyes. Don't tell him your giving him an ultimatum though. He won't appreciate being threatened, but do this for yourself!